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 Holy Week Reflection: The Cross, the Cup, and the Crown Tomorrow, we remember the Last Supper—an intimate and profound moment where Jesus, fully aware of what lay ahead, chose to gather with His disciples one final time. He broke bread, poured the cup, and washed their feet. And yes—He even washed the feet of Judas Iscariot, the one who had already set betrayal in motion. Imagine that: sitting across from someone who has sold you out for silver… and still choosing to serve them in love. Jesus knew Judas’s heart. He knew the kiss would come. Yet, He knelt and washed his feet. That is the most outrageous act in human terms. Because let’s be honest—if it were us, we’d call it out, confront it, maybe even cause a scene. But Jesus didn’t. He taught us something eternal: love does not change based on betrayal. Grace is not earned. Mercy is not given only when deserved. It is given because it is who He is. The lesson? Simple, yet deeply challenging. As it is written in Romans: “If your e...

Anchored in Love: A Ship That Will Never Sink Introduction: In a world where relationships often come and go like fleeting tides, there are rare moments that remind us of the enduring power of true friendship. This post is a reflection on one such moment—captured not just in a photograph, but in the spirit. This photo speaks volumes about the strength and stability of true friendship—a bond that feels like a sturdy ship weathering even the fiercest storms. While many ships may falter and sink, this one remains steadfast, carrying the weight of love, trust, and unwavering support. It evokes the scripture about Jesus walking on water, reminding us of divine guidance and grace that sustains us through life’s uncertainties. Oletta Adams’ lyrics, “Come and walk with me upon the water,” resonate deeply here. This friendship feels like an invitation to trust, to let go, and to be held by something greater than ourselves. The image captures not just physical support, but emotional and spiritua...

There’s a moment when love flips — without warning. One day you’re blooming, the next you’re bleeding from invisible cuts. Divorce didn’t just break me — it taught me the radical art of choosing myself.  When Love Changes There’s a moment when love flips — without warning. One day you’re blooming, the next you’re bleeding from invisible cuts. Divorce didn’t just break me — it taught me the radical art of choosing myself. When this song plays — LoveHate Thing (feat. Sam Dew) — it reminds me how quickly emotions can shift. We are born to love, naturally, and somewhere along the way, we are taught how to hate. I often wonder: how does love that once blossomed so purely, suddenly wilt and die? It fascinates me how real love, even new love, can change along the way in a relationship. I am a loyal person — consistent and steady. That’s why it shocks me when love dips below zero, forcing me to shut my heart completely. At some point, you start to wonder: Should we love with our hearts or...

I’m about to land from Joburg,  Two people, two lights in my life, waiting to hold space for me. The flight touches down. My Bolt ride takes forever to confirm — prices climbing like an auction. Hungry and tired, I jump into a random car. The driver keeps staring at his phone, confused. Meanwhile, the actual Bolt driver keeps calling  me  — both of us tangled in the mess. Two minutes later, the driver finally realises I’m not even his passenger. I ask him, “Should I walk back?” Frustrated but calm, I just want food, peace, and a place to offload my thoughts. He shrugs. It’s a cash trip. So I cancel the original ride, hand him the fare, and accept it: life sometimes rides its own unpredictable wave. Funny thing — I had wondered why he didn’t get out to help with my luggage! Now I know. And still, I laughed. Because sometimes, you have to allow life to  just happen . And just like that, a message pops up from my dear  Motswalle . “Saturday, lunch with Sweetness. N...